Monthly Archives: October 2005
Irrational Contempt
Question: I have a small group somewhat elitist of friends that it took me just under a year to wriggle into the ranks of. The main core consists of maybe 4 or 5 guys, and maybe me, but i am … Continue reading
Anger is Normal
Question: Hi, I have a friend whose mother is very controlling and stubborn. She says she has anger problems but the mother won’t go see a psychologist because she’s too stubborn. Is there anyway to help the mother and convince … Continue reading
Hormones and Anger
Question: I am having some major problems at the moment with my hubby but now I feel I need to sort out a few issues I have myself. I recognize I had PND after my baby was born a year … Continue reading
Husband’s Angry Mood Swings
Question: Ok where to start. I have been married to my husband for 6 years. He has always had really bad mood swings. He is very loving, loves me and our children very much but has such a short temper. … Continue reading
Defusing Anger and Conflict
Question: How can I defuse my anger when someone (a “downer”) is unfairly blaming or judging me?Answer: Here are some steps to take. First of all, listen attentively to what is being said. Try to understand and clarify the issue … Continue reading
Hidden Expectations and Anger
What impact do expectations have on anger and frustration in our lives? Consider these scenarios… Your friend stands you up for a luncheon. You immediately feel humiliated, rejected and disrespected. Later on, you discover that she/he had a flat tire … Continue reading
Getting Angry Over Nothing?
Why do we get so mad over things that don’t really matter, like getting cut off in traffic by someone who’s in too much of a hurry? Sources of Anger: Maybe it’s cumulative stress. Or maybe it has to do … Continue reading
Controlling My Temper
Question: When I get angry, I blow up so fast that I don’t have time to stop and think or ask for God’s wisdom. I know all of these things would help, but by the time I think of it … Continue reading